Asperger's Syndrome - The Paradox of an Inability To Change

How to set this change? Could it be defined differently by those who have the Syndrome of Asperger, versus the Neurotypicals in their lives? Who wants to is this change? Waiting is that change? That is that is conditioned to think being does not able to fully change something means that any change is impossible? And it is so important for people to go into account that not everything which is regarded as in need of some equal changes an inability to change. More often than not, this "inability to change" is an illusion where the lack of change is coming from to which is a different ability. How to evaluate the difference between change based on a set of standards from a different ability that brings with it means, and a different function and contribute in different ways.Why do you think y such focus on the Asperger Syndrome of people diagnosed with it as having is not the ability to change? What is the message of this fact, certainly, but focusing extensively or even exclusively on this fact?Is it focusing on the reality that people with the Syndrome of Asperger (AS) it will always leave for hope room? If so, think you can hope for? What could be this hope on?It is true that is is not something that can be recovered, or cease to have a way, this does not mean that people with and cannot continue to learn and develop new skills, capacity adjustment or compensatory skills - they can absolutely.Now, of course, not everyone with Asperger's is exactly the same at all. This means that each person with AS how will reflect or even be aware on wanting or who need to learn new ways to cope and compensation will vary. And, although not a statement set in stone, it seems, my experience as a life coach, a person with a Syndrome of Asperger and a person who communicates with many with AS and read much about itthat among all the variables and the differences in the way that everyone with AS manifest it, gender differences seem to have led many to conclude that the way that Asperger's male effects is not in the same wayIt affects several females. Tony Attwood mentions this in his book, "The Complete Guide to the Syndrome of Asperger." Therefore it is not just me speculating.For those of us diagnosed in adulthood, which had nothing to have early intervention or support as aspie children are today, we must be creative with how we go about coping and compensation. In most regions of the world, it has same services for adults with Asperger's - as if children aspie of today not tomorrow aspie adults will join the rest of us in this abyss of sorts.I have done in my life and my journey with the Asperger Syndrome that there was much that I continued to learn. I have pushed my own limits and in many respects still do. I think, initially, after receiving a diagnosis at the age of 40 years, in 1997, I was trying to get rid of AS - as if huh?However, for the past many years, it has really been much more gratitude for my trip. Gratitude for all that I continued to learn and to compensate for mixed with a deepening never radical acceptance of the paradox of Asperger's. A paradox which considers as being difficult and was blessed and giftedness. I continue to experience of this paradox rich and deep in what seems to take me, at times, or impose on me sometimes and everything what gives me, blessed me with most of the time.Hope lies in this radical acceptance and self acceptance. It is located in the re-framing of penchant of the society for shows the difference. The company defines Asperger's as a handicap. I have experience as a different capacity. It is a question of how we think and what we choose to think. In fact, most of the people I have never spoken and know now or have experienced who have Asperger's, like me, want to get rid of it even if they could. Most is not to be "modified" so that the masses considers "normal".There is nothing such as "perfectly normal". There is no "everyone else" out there to look like. That "everyone" is really all depends on how a group of people think or what they like. All-too-often that this boils down to the monotony. If people are different from what is your "normal" or the ways that you share