The news that a child of the family is autistic is most often encountered a number of reactions. While all members of the family, same areas, would be favourable in an ideal world, the sad truth is that many are disgusted or disappointed. Is a family member scold the autistic children often? He or she seeks to your autistic child unfairly? If the family member insist to treat your autistic child in the same way that he or she deals with all the other children of your family, even when it is inappropriate? These are signs that the parent is not receptive to your autistic child or the situation. Often this may be the case when a child of the discovery is autistic, so parent, be aware and prepared to do this.
Often, parents refuse do not understand what autism is and what it means for your child and your immediate family. While many see autism as a mental retardation, many autistic children and adults are very intelligent; they are just unable to communicate in the same way that others would be. Try to explain what autism means this member of the family and have him spend time with you and your autistic child. To see the effects of autism and the methods that you can use to cope.
If the Member of the family continues to be unsatisfactory or refuses your explanation, ask why the family member is so insensitive to the situation. What is they are afraid of hurting the child? They concern the additional responsibility? when passing time with la avec la Perhaps they feel guilty or are uncomfortable. If you can determine why a member of the family is insensitive, you can better the issue and hopefully help her overcome their original perceptions.
No amount of talk or spend time together will perhaps help this member of the family overcome their prejudices. If this person has stubbornly composed of his spirit, you will never have how beautiful its your son or your daughter is autistic and all. If this is the case, the Elimination of this person in your life can be difficult, but it will also remove you and your child of this member of the family and the personality negative energy. In this evolution of the situation, you need the best available positive support. Don't forget that the other members of the family have been favorable; that your children are adjusting well and are a source of strength for you. Build your support network by participating in support groups of parents for autistic children. And don't forget that you can enclose with those who accept and love for your child-family or not.