Discovering that your child has autism can be a painful test, and unfortunately, time is of the essence. As a parent, you've not the time to examine why and how this happened, only what to do next. The most important to remember is that you are not alone in your struggle. Research on the disorder and to find others in similar situations, you can help you child while still on your own emotional reaction.
Join a support group for parents with autism. You can find these by contacting the national Autism Society of America. From there you can find local branches, which offers many support groups for parents and families with an autistic child. Be in contact with other parents in similar situations can not only help you feel less alone, but it can provide you with a multitude of resources. A parents support group help also you point in the direction of the best doctors, programmes of intervention and workshops for your children and your family. Find a support group for other children you have as well. Many parents forget that they are not the only ones who have to learn to live and communicate with an autistic child. By installing a support group for your other children, you can help with was or against autistic child by teaching them about the disease. As a parent, you must create a favourable environment for the whole family to properly manage your child's illness.
Consider marriage advice if you are married. An autistic child can put strain on a marriage, leading to escalating arguments, negligence of the other and perhaps even blame each other the situation. Marriage counselling at the outset can help a couple with this discovery and the rough transition and help build a better environment for your children. Your wedding should not have an autistic child, but the sad fact is that many of them do. Avoid this by using the other for support and understanding that you may need help to deal with the other, now and in the future.
More importantly, start on the path to become an expert. Several times paediatricians or psychiatrists are not experts on autism, which can lead to improper diagnoses or incorrect treatment options. As the best advocate for your child, you know everything you can on autism. Parents of autistic children can be an excellent resource; This organization offers training and workshops. The ASA has a newsletter and also offers a variety of information, diagnose to treat. As always, don't forget that a group of support of parents of autistic children can always provide books and research focus on the reality of the situation. Educate yourself and those around you provide the most beneficial things for your child - love and guidance.
